Cosmic Matchmaker Theology (Or “Misusing Christianity To Get a Spouse”)
You may have heard (or believe) things such as: “If you want to get a girlfriend/boyfriend, read your Bible.” “God has someone picked out for you.” “A girl has to be so lost in God that a guy has to seek Him in order to find her.” Just typing those made me cringe. When our religion becomes a gateway for us to find a spouse, then something has gone, very, very wrong.